Daily living in verbal violence, emotional or psychological, you'll slowly falls into a pit of depression that first started with a terrible anxiety and nervousness, passing by angst, the bewilderment of thinking why are passing through these moments, that confusion to tide your mind and that makes you lose focus, makes you lose the strength to undertake their way out of the violence. Here, one way or another you could pass the threshold of this emotional violence to physical violence, which becomes serious the situation requires urgent intervention by authorities and leads to the breakup of the couple. My story can be yours, because I write these articles after having overcome the violence but for this years passed because I did not have to start a guide to act and not fall beyond the verbal violence, and Yes...I had very bad moments, moments of tension, of rage, impotence, who made me fall into a general anxiety with which passed to fear and that horrible paralysis to act. You can not miss that this happens to you, you can not! You should get out of there by it and your children!You must operate from first symptoms to be able to find an agreement, from there, from that negotiation with him, can you realize if the relationship is repaired, or if it is necessary to finish it. Maria was a night waiting for her husband who did not work, your baby was sleeping, her young daughter was only 5 months old. It was not the first time that the she left them alone, it was one of the so many times, it was another of the many times of nerves, fear, loneliness. Mary knew that her husband went out there after work with friends to take a little and spend money on video games, those of 20 years ago. She had already seen it on another occasion an afternoon playing, smoking and taking something at that place that night, at 2 a.m., not arrived, Maria entered into panic, very nervous and crying she saw her baby slept deep, tucked it, put your slippers and so, in pajamas, fell by the Elevator, and ran out crying by the lonely streets and a media luz del Barrio, desperate, in panic, looking for her husband, he came to the door of the premises of games...He stood up and almost crying you couldn't call it...someone saw it and told him to, her husband comes out fast between astonished, ashamed and angry, he grabs her arm and takes her to the quick Department...the baby was alone!.